Wow, what an enlightening session I just had with a client. A deeper understanding of manifesting money arose from the reading though a wonderful metaphor. It is my favorite metaphor yet. It clears up so many lies that we believe about money.
Manifestation of Money
Here are a few lies it clears up:
- Money comes to us, as a trade. It shows up based on how much we trade of our time, effort and soul, or that we have to work HARD to have money… (yikes, trading our soul for money? Many people believe following your truth is being poor. That’s just wrong!).
- Also, a big lie many people believe is that they don’t deserve money to come to them because who they are isn’t that valuable. (Who you are is always valuable. What you do might vary in monetary value, but always believe YOU are valuable.)
- You have to do or think the right things to have money come your way. My favorite lie is the idea in the law of attraction around money: that you have to always think positively about money or the moment you think negatively, it’ll go away. (Craziness, literally, that perception makes people crazy trying to always be positive and deny worry, fears, frustrations.)
- The money you have is based on external factors. How good your website looks, how smart you are dressed, how many people are on your business list, how snappy your business card looks. Anything about looks, presentation, or doing something in just the right way to get the sale.
So, those are the big four. As you know there are sooo many more lies. Everyday I am frustrated as I see other business coaches sell needless things to their clients based on lies (ok lies they believe, so they see them as truths). I see many offerings as needless, because it doesn’t matter a hoot externally what is going on.
You can have a crappy website, out of date clothing, plain business cards and still be successful. 1000% true. How? Keep reading.
Up until today, I knew the amount of money and clients that we all manifested was because of being very authentic and honest in asking for the amount desired.
When I feel low and feel I have something to prove, then often I ask for more clients than I honestly want. Just to prove something to myself. Guess what, they don’t show up! When I’m honest beyond my ego, to my truth with what I want, they always show up in that amount. Same is true for my clients and friends (and YOU!).
What I learned today about manifesting money, in the session with my client, was to think of it as best friend.
When you are on a spiritual path with money, it will be there for you when you authentically, honestly, truthfully need it. (When you are on another path with money, it might show up when you lie, cheat, steal, but that’s a sh*! storm of karma I personally don’t want).
It won’t just show up because your ego has decided you want a new car to make others think you are successful or to prove a point. On a path to grow your spirit and soul, it won’t ever show up just to gratify your ego for material gain. Why? Because that would be a crappy friend. One that is making you believe you are only as good as what you HAVE or EARN.
Your good friend will show up when you need it, because you trust this friend, honor this friend and have sooo much frickin gratitude for this friend. The energy of money wants to have a wonderful relationship with you.
Really your soul, your higher self, wants to have a good relationship with you in every aspect. A way to practice this is in your relationship with money because it’s one that likely most fraught with feelings of danger, fear and uncertainty. Money, like any energy in your life, will always be a good friend. It won’t be there when that’s exactly what you need to learn to grow as a soul. Or it will be there, in spades, when it’s exactly what you need.
So, overall truth: if money is not there for you, then it’s because you need to learn something about that. If it is there, you also will be learning. You are not a bad person if you don’t have money coming to you, you just have a spiritual lesson to learn.
Here’s a little statement for you: “Money, thanks for always being a good friend. I appreciate your role in my life immensely. I honor and trust you will be there in ways that are exactly perfect for my soul’s growth and learning. I value myself and my inherent brilliance and allow you (Money) to be in my life with grace and ease. Thank you, from my heart, for helping me grow as a soul so I can be of the most benefit to others from these lessons. Many blessings, honor and appreciation…
